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तूफान में ताश का घर नहीं बनता , नदी को रोकने से समुंदर नहीं बनता!
रोने से बिगड़ा मुकदर नहीं बनता , बड़ते रहो ज़िन्दगी में हरपल !
क्योंकि दस हार से कोई फकीर और एक जीत से कोई सिकंदर नही बनता !!
First thing necessary for success not only in competition but in your life that is “PATIENCE “And from where this miracle word originate answer is from nature:
The kind of strength it would take if we were to break something as hard as rock, but with time & patience a tiny seeds does the job. Evidently it is not the size of the seed that determines its progress , but its patience & will to persevere , similarly, distinguishes the strong from weak is patience & perseverance.
Through the transformation of a caterpillar into a butterfly, nature gently unfolds to us the power of patience. Before a caterpillar emerges out of its chrysalis as a butterfly & takes on flight, it has to go through a lot of struggling. Each time it lungs out to escape, acid are being removed from its wings. If someone were to break the chrysalis open, the butterfly would surely die from those acids. Patience is essential for the butterfly to survive and this is pre decided by our god.
Now question is that if life (which is most important than your competition) wants patience to survive / born in this nature so now you can imagine your position.
PATIENCE IS A FORM OF WISDOM, IT DEMOSTRATES THAT WE UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THE FACT THAT SOMETIMES THINGS MUST UNFOLD IN THEIR OWN TIME........
Now come to our famous weapon “STRUGGLE”
Failing in 1 to 20, 30 and so on... Examination is not a struggle it is called learning (when we start practicing driving a car/bike so, so many times we break the rules met with accident ( car/bike ko tokh dete hain sidha aur phir daant kaha te hai papa ki ) so this is also called failure until we perfect , so what u thing this struggle no no no this is learning )
If you really want to success in life / competition so first thing don’t count your learning/ hard work as a struggle. You know people only want see your success, your age / years/ learning doesn’t count at all.
And if really want to see what is struggle please visit nearby hospital , and look those patient who have desire to live life but unfortunately their body does not support , they struggle for every second for life...............
Now how strong you are:
If one failure loses your confident / you doubt on your ability ( as shown after result declaration ) so sorry to say that it is not suitable place /career for you better to do something else as soon as possible but it is not guarantee how much time you survive in another place.
And if you really a good warrior ( aur agar is failure ne aapke chote se mann ko itna hurt kiya hai toh sabit karo isse bhi tough competition aur jyada powerful/ higher job leke ) so your answer is like that:
I accept my failure and i am only responsible for that not my luck/fate , not even exam conducting agency / not reservation , i promise i will rectify my mistakes and not stop trying till i turns my dreams into reality....
Don’t forget only losers show their weakness/sadness, we only give some sympathy nothing else, this is only they people want.
First be strong then believe on yourself then trust on your ability then faith on your hard work then planning for any examination.....
You know what is the most important quality of an officer that is no place for emotions because this is an obstacle between your heart and mind and you know the answer......
Most hurting time for parents when they see sadness/pain on child face (your failure is doesn’t matter at that time), and believe me we will feel same situation when we become parents....
So one more time/ no thousand times it is our first responsibility to don’t do anything which hurts our parents and every minute in our life we trying to put smile on our parents face.
So friends stand up you are still alive you are still in the battlefield and laksya toh har haal mai pana hai ........
Don’t forget ideal student five qualities:
काक चेष्टा, ( patience and efforts like a crow (try again and again until your goal is achieved, remember famous story of a crow trying to drink water from a pot- but water level is too low then crow trying placing pieces of stones until raise the water level and then drink water ) )
बको ध्यानं, ( study with full concentration, like a crane (bagula stand with one leg) )
स्वान निद्रा तथैव च । ( sleep like a dog )- so a student should be always be active and not so lazy.
अल्पहारी, (should eat less ) - eat less means a proper diet so that you not feel sleepy and tired .
गृहत्यागी, ( ready to stay away from home for study / after job)
विद्यार्थी पंच लक्षणं ।। ( five essential features of good student )
SUCCESS IS NOT PERMANENT AND FAILURE IS NOT FINAL...
NEVER STOP WORKING AFTER SUCCESS AND
NEVER STOP TRYING AFTER FAILURE